Beef Stew & Bitching

“I will grudgingly do this, Mom,” wrote Younger Son. How can you be irritated at a kid who uses a great word like “grudgingly” and even spells it correctly? This was in response to a gentle reminder I’d posted about doing math homework or something equally as attractive. My subtle suggestions are always taped to […]

Healthy Normal American Boy

That’s what we sang back in 1976, when my small-town high school tackled a production of Bye Bye Birdie. High school was not a shining social series of glory days for me.  I was always the last person chosen for teams in gym – at least, the last person before the captains were reduced to […]

Watch Out For Your Neck

My New Hampshire Grammy was a worried little woman – wisely worried, really, since there is indeed danger everywhere.  She’d have taken last week’s Florida sinkhole death right in stride, though, adding it to her “See?  I told you so!” defensive arsenal. We’re a family of deep and constant worriers, and she as matriarch made […]

Sincere Eternity

No, I am not going all new-age metaphysical on you — I’m far too grounded in Yankee practicality to float off into the calming comforts of other dimensions. I can’t even indulge in a nice juicy private fantasy without spoiling it with questions of logistics and petty details and common-sense obstacles.   I feel too foolish […]